Advice would be welcome
Here is my all too common situation. I asked my wife to consider reading Tristan Taormino's book, Opening Up. I led with the phrase, "As far as I'm concerned, we don't need to change a thing; I just want us to read about it." She was reluctant. After the book lay untouched on the table for a few days I found myself eventually trying to persuade her, at which point I knew I'd gone off course and now I feel rather foolish about it all. I'm prepared to throw in the towel on this--polyamory--but I still feel as if there may be something in it for us. Any advice would be appreciated.
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