Originally Posted by SNeacail
How is your sex life with your wife? Is she willing to be adventurous and try things the "church" wouldn't necessarily condone? If she can't get kinky, I don't see her being able to accept multiple partners. That may just take time.
Not all poly people are kinky.
“As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.” —bisexualbaker