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Old 08-06-2010, 03:04 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by cerisenoir View Post
Could this be my way of trying to get out of making a commitment to someone?

Do I have issues?
Probably. If you have a history of relationships that haven't lasted long and haven't been fulfilling, then likely so. The only constant is each of those is you.

Or am I on to a good idea that just needs planning?
Probably. Figure out your issues and deal with those and you'll likely find that you can then find and build relationships that work better for you.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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