Thanks redpepper. I'll certainly be around to discuss how things are going. There's still a lot to learn and to work through. As much as "our" guy says he doesn't intend for me to be or feel like a "secondary" partner (which isn't acceptable or desireable to me), they haven't been treating me as another primary in most situations so far. They have typically made decisions and then asked me or let me know about it. Long distance relationships are challenging under most circumstances, so we'll see if my living closer makes any difference in the "primary-secondary" dynamic. He thinks it will. I'm thinking "seeing is believing".
Last edited by dragonflysky; 08-06-2010 at 01:03 PM.