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Old 08-05-2010, 01:42 AM
X-User1335 X-User1335 is offline
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Default So there was a argument.....

Well not even that. Just a moment where I (the first wife) had a moment and didn't want the other girl around anymore. Not because I don't love her, not because I don't want her in our life to, but because of other real life drama. Drama that was hard to get out of.

How do you work through this as a family?

I don't want to go into details, but I know I hurt her and I know it wasn't the right decision because I do love her and want her in both of our lives.

Arguments..........I guess they happen in mono familes and they happen in poly families. It just seems so much harder in a poly life than it does in mono. As mono we can just move on together and get over it all and forgive one another. In poly it seems so much more complicated.

I know that this isn't the end of our triad. It's just the beginning. It's the beginning of the real world and things that come with it.
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