Originally Posted by Athena
How would others handle it, if it is claimed by someone that spouse has other sig others, but is denying it, despite already having agreed upon boundaries that all other relatonships be honestly discussed?
I suppose that I'd just ask my spouse to describe their relationship with the person in detail, without relying on categories. I've certainly experienced having mismatched definitions, such as Quath suggests, cause some minor miscommunication.
That said, I'd expect to know a lot more about my spouse's love life than any other person, so I'd be rather skeptical of the claim.