thank you for your reply
For me - it feels like being a unicorn is who I am
no matter what the relationship I Am in.
I feel like more than A bi-sexual
which seems to imply that I find everyone potentially attractive.
which is simply not true.
I find my happiest expression in being with both a man and a woman at once
i have been this many times
and am looking forward to being a part of a triad again.
so I think Unicorn describes identity for me, better than bi.
- Alma May - a unicorn looking for another in New Mexico
P.S. My husband is being wonderfully supportive - he knows me well enough to know that this is what I've always wanted
and is working to wrap his head and heart and trust around it.