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Old 08-04-2010, 03:44 PM
DazednConfused DazednConfused is offline
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Redpepper, I'm glad you brought up compersion. I don't know if I will ever find it. Last night we were all together at another concert (by the way this is exhausting!). I stepped away to have a smoke, and watched them interact from a distance. The pangs of anger/jealousy and all the other 'little uglies' weren't as bad, they were there, just much more managable, and she truly did look happy. I don't know if I can ever feel compersion for them. I love my wife, her BF is someone I find enjoyable to be around (as I said we were once friends) but I just don't know if I can get there. Has any mono/poly couple been able to survive if the mono can't get to compersion?
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