Originally Posted by angel
Whats wrong with loving more than one person anyway?
Absolutely nothing. I think I would wonder of myself if I were considering your other man as an escape route however rather than a love. I would think that there would be some fear of abuse coming up again and now you have someone to fall back on. Not a bad thing at all, just wonder what will come to pass when you actually have a baby... they change everything. As does conducting a poly relationship... hang in there, all will be revealed I'm sure.