Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
I can't speak for a two sided poly side relationship but I can say with authority that mono / poly relationships are way more work than a mono /mono relationship. Way more !
That's interesting and I guess it depends on where you are in your life at the time. My 12 year monogamous relationship was much harder than my current poly relationships but that's just because I had a lot of emotional work to do back then and also I had no relationship skills yet and I had to learn all of that. Now that I'm older (and wiser) relationships are just easier!! Since I'm poly now, it seems that poly relationships are easier to me.