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Old 08-02-2010, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by twistedpair9 View Post
wow thanks everyone. It sucks because I am in love with him but in my guts I know I really should do myself the favor and move on.
It is very possible to be in love with someone, while also being aware that the person is not right for you. Observing a person's behavior and making a rational and logical decision about being willing to pursue a serious relationship with them or not is a healthy process. You can walk away from someone you are madly in love with. It doesn't mean you don't love them. It just means you are taking care of yourself.
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.
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