I read sage's question
My question is are you ever completely content with what you have or are you always on the look out for more?
For me I CAN be completely happy in my current Primary relationship. I was before Possibility came along. I wasn't looking for another partner when he asked me & that relationship has been been one again, off again for two years now. I can't imagine scheduling my life around him. It's hard enough getting him to schedule one night a week without sending him a reminder that it's supposed to be our evening together.
I've always been content with what I've had (with the notable exception of my marriage). I was content living by myself, when living with boyfriends, etc. I think that comes from learning to be able to live with myself and to love any time I get where it's just me (like now. It's just me for the next hour! WOOT!)