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Old 08-01-2010, 12:09 AM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Originally Posted by Jade View Post
I feel your pain. It's not really fair... to care so much and not receive it in return.
Actually its very fair.

To believe, what you put out there will always be returned, is in a lot of ways an unfair expectation. I love our ex, but have none of it in return. To claim that is unfair puts pressure on her. Once you give, without the expectation of something to receive...things become easier

I write that easily btw, but this is a lesson I am learning myself. I suffered with a lot of pain when I knew, for the first time in my life, the love I gave someone wouldn't be returned. But it has been a worthwhile lessons in living without expectation.
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