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Old 08-02-2009, 02:15 PM
XYZ123 XYZ123 is offline
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P used to use this line all the time. "You are married" "He is your husband". I reminded her all the time that we were together a little over 5 years before marriage and the marriage came about for practical (health insurance, life insurance, security for our child) and not emotional reasons. In our hearts, we were married long before. And to us, that "in our hearts" union was what mattered and could be achieved with another just as strongly emotionally, if not legally. I may as well have been talking to a wall.
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