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Old 07-29-2010, 10:31 PM
seren seren is offline
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Thanks for the feedback. I had been watching a lot of you tube videos, reading articles, etc., and it seems like a deeper thing than the more casual approach I'm looking for. Eugene brought up a good point that represents my concerns over being poly. I suppose it's just about finding the right person who is okay with maintaining the boundary of a friend with benefits and not more than that. My concern would be that there would be an expectation in the future for becoming another primary. I suppose I'd want a secondary to whom I am also their secondary. But as you said...it's a process. I just wanted to make sure that my expectations aren't totally out of left field. I'm glad it's up to determination and specific circumstances.
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