Well, EugenePoet, I wouldn't call it making love, but
You're both right. I have mentioned that this is a bit scratchy for me to him and he is kind of incredulous that I would even be worried about it, but supportive nonetheless. He said that he will be prepared for if it happens, but he is not going to seek it out (sleeping with her, that is)
The trip's a way off so I'll leave it for now... but... thanks for the advice
I think part of the problem is we haven't explicitly made any "agreement" of any kind... and I don't think I really want to even. Do you ever get to that place of comfort? Does it ever feel ok? Am I going to be umming and aahing on forums every time another girl appears?