Originally Posted by YamZenitram
...we both agree to see people who are more like-minded. Easier said than done, of course
Aye, there's the rub. It's not always easy to figure out hidden agendas. The obvious stuff like this is easy to find and walk away from. Other stuff takes a good deal of time to spot.
Ah, well, to live and love well, one has to be prepared for things to not work out.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.