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Old 07-28-2010, 08:56 PM
jkelly jkelly is offline
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Originally Posted by AnotherConfused View Post
So his whole big concern with me having another man to love is that I will put emotional energy into that relationship, and it will keep me from achieving anything important.
That may be an unusual concern, or one that you don't sympathise with, but if it's something that's important to him (and it sounds like it is), and your relationship with him is important, then you should try to ameliorate that concern. You can do that by asking what he'd like to see you achieve and tell him what you'd like to achieve, and then making progress to whatever goals you end up with, while still maintaining any relationships you happen to be in.
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