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Old 07-28-2010, 08:50 PM
DavidWebb DavidWebb is offline
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Originally Posted by AnotherConfused View Post
He agreed it was right that I told him, but he still didn't want to know.
I can relate to this. Ignorance was bliss, but at the same time, I am glad I found out. Yes, it seems divergent thinking. Not sure how that helps you exactly except I guess to know that your husband isn't the only human being to ever feel this way.

Anyway... your initial post was ONE week ago. Talk about a whirlwind, huh? I can only imagine the emotional roller coaster you've ridden the last week.
Here's my suggestion (emphasis on 'my' and 'suggestion')... take a breath. Several breaths. Let everyone sit with the info they have and talk about it if/when they find it necessary up to the point they/you are comfortable. If a bit of time goes by and you feel nobody seems to be addressing the matter at hand (esp. dh), then maybe try to encourage some dialogue there.

Mono husband to poly wife (married in 1997; poly since 2010); my name is not really David or Jason
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