Originally Posted by jbird
So now, she is saying vehemently that this is innate, it isn't going away. At the same time, she is saying she will give it up for me.
Isn't that a contradiction? Is there any basis for trusting this situation? Wouldn't I just be her oppressor?
I understand that statement.
I am poly. I want other relationships in my life. However, if my dh said NO - that will HURT me and cause me PAIN - I would not pursue anything other than friendships.
I love him enough to give up that for him.
He loves me enough to walk this journey with me.