We have talked about this question before. If I were on a computer and not on my phone I would look for you...
In a nut shell I believe the consensus has been to be up front about everything from day one. Why ask for honesty, openness and good communication if you are not willing to offer the same.
Personally I would be hurt and angry if I didn't know from first contact pertinent information such as that.
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