Ya, if you look around you will soon see that this isn't a site for soliciting sex.
"Open" is the opposite of closed. Its a very basic term used for couples who mutually decide they want to look outside their traditionally closed relationships for sex and companionship. "Polyamory" is about having many loves. Of course that includes sex also, but the basis is love first and developing a relationship with oneself and others around what that means.
As others have said, do some reading on here and see what you think. If you can't find what you need, do a search with key words or through tags and go from there. Generally speaking we are all happy to answer your questions.
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