Hi, (I presume it's Mr Babe I'm talking to)
What is normal in polyamory? Everyone just seems to be working out their stuff and it's more about fairness than normality.
It sounds like you have practical problems around getting enough intimate adult time whether it's with Babe or separately. Have you talked about it in these terms?
And the sex thing - again I can't talk about normality but I would want to know. I find it erotic. Of course you have to be considerate to what Babe and her lover want, they may want to keep things special between themselves. I think it's still OK to ask whether or not it happened though.
Last edited by sage; 07-25-2010 at 06:52 AM.