Originally Posted by Superjast
Unconditional love does seem to be person specific. You can`t tell yourself, or force yourself to feel it, or command it to show up when you 'want' it.
It`s either there, or it`s not.
The great thing about being poly, is we don`t have to force ourselves to stop loving someone, if we can`t be with them. You learn to love from afar, and carry on investing in new loves elsewhere.
Great sentiment Superjast. BTW what is a super jast? I absolutely believe this to be true about love, unconditional to be specific. I have experienced it really. As always Immaterial you bring up great points.