Yes it was me that said that. Now I'm trying to come to terms with the fact that I don't have to be anything more than I am to be loved.
But I am also having the "what will people think dilemma" I told my 19 year old daughter last night and she had a fit. All the stuff I have come to expect, "why do you put up with it" "you deserve better" "You obviously don't make him happY" . I have worked through all that stuff but now I have to work through other people working through it. But hey I guess that's just life, I'm sure if it wasn't this it would be something else.