Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
To say the least any time EITHER of them have had any sort of health or family emergency I've made it a priority to be there.
To me-poly isn't an excuse for neglect. If there are 3 partners, that should mean you have MORE support, not less.
I appreciate your feedback LovingRadiance. I know that I, too, would give either/both of them priority if there was a family or health emergency. And...yes...I, too, would hope that poly would be an opportunity for more support...especially since he's referring to us potentially as a "family" (sister-wife sort of thing.) Sometimes I wonder if they're not more concerned about never being in a relationship again where they feel like they're being "controlled" by a committed partner than the ability to love more than one person at a time.