Originally Posted by geminigirl
My ex-husband (who I was still with when we "discovered" poly) just cheated on his (monogamous) girlfriend. He just texted me to tell me this; five minutes later, *she* called me in tears (she has no friends in town) and wanted to talk. I have a friend coming for dinner so I had to get her off the phone as quickly as possible, but I feel sorry for her.
Am I crazy for not wanting to get involved? Right now, ethical non-monogamy certainly trumps cheating.
Feel free to join me in the venting thread...
Holy crap this sucks. I like them both and still I don't want to get involved either despite having a level of friendship with his girlfriend. This simply sucks