You have been thinking of her almost entirely in terms of what you can get out of her. It's no wonder she's not interested. You seem to be increasingly angry and frustrated simply because she's not putting out to your standards. This seems like a fairly thin kind of love that's got some serious strings attached. When men do this, it's called sexual harassment. Certainly, she might have some kind of curiosity or perhaps an agenda, but your disrespect for her comes across really powerfully in your post, much more than just simple impatience or sexual frustration, at least to me.