Having 20 years in the military with substantial deployment time, I can say pretty confidently that if he is going away, now is not the time to pursue this in my opinion. When I first got together with Redpepper, I barely focussed on work for months. He would just be commencing his training and this would be his first absence from home. Starting off a career that involves gong away quite often is always hard. Add in the emotions of opening up a relationship and I doubt he will be even focussed enough to succeed.
Even now, I don't think going away for any amount of time would be very healthy for my relationship. Luckily I'm retirement material and so I can stay home until I am done.
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Last edited by MonoVCPHG; 07-19-2010 at 01:10 PM.