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Old 07-17-2010, 12:43 AM
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my anxiety, which stems from fear of loss; my jealousy, which is the irrational fear, based jealousy manifesting in the pit of my stomach. This comes from the feeling that by her attention being given elsewhere and her affection (re: emotional affection) there's less for me. Now my rational brain says love isn't a finite commodity, but my reptile brain (the part with no reason or need for it) wants it all and any that goes anywhere else is at a loss to me! mine! mine! All mine!
Many people find the jealousy articles at http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html helpful.

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she has found it so easy to find willing participants (term please) in the lifestyle and I am having a heck of a time finding any at all. Which I am sure is common, but if anyone has any ideas of how to break the coming out part to a potential interest.
I think Pepper's article at http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/200...e-big-picture/ is really good.

I understand that OkCupid is rather poly- friendly. You may do better there than at the site you are using.
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