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Old 07-17-2010, 12:43 AM
jkelly jkelly is offline
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Originally Posted by Indigomontoya View Post
my anxiety, which stems from fear of loss; my jealousy, which is the irrational fear, based jealousy manifesting in the pit of my stomach. This comes from the feeling that by her attention being given elsewhere and her affection (re: emotional affection) there's less for me. Now my rational brain says love isn't a finite commodity, but my reptile brain (the part with no reason or need for it) wants it all and any that goes anywhere else is at a loss to me! mine! mine! All mine!
Many people find the jealousy articles at helpful.

Originally Posted by Indigomontoya View Post
she has found it so easy to find willing participants (term please) in the lifestyle and I am having a heck of a time finding any at all. Which I am sure is common, but if anyone has any ideas of how to break the coming out part to a potential interest.
I think Pepper's article at is really good.

I understand that OkCupid is rather poly- friendly. You may do better there than at the site you are using.
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