I think yu misinterpreted her post Mono - she was one, and expresses a uique sadness for believing she may not find one now like she was then.
Thank you for your post Alma; it read almost poetic to me. I hope you do find what you need, and I take some confort on your nehalf in feeling that should you find her, your husband would not interfere in your pursuit of that particular happiness. My screen name is derived from finding my soulmate and from what came of sharing with a unicorn or two, lately one that looks to be long term. Had I been more thoughtful in creating my account, I would have gone with "LuckiestManAlive" instead. I am aware of my good fortune, and feel for those still looking for that missing puzzle piece.