hm, bad Maca. *smack*
no communication? crossing boundaries? going ahead with sex without consulting and respecting feelings and pace? Maca! you should know better!
It's all very nice to be happy for him LR, but the fact of the matter is that it's you that suffers and therefore him and then her and everyone else when he doesn't do what he says he will and have the foresight to check in before doing things. Nothing changes in that regard just because you are happy for him and want him to be.