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Old 07-16-2010, 12:30 AM
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You might have to find new ways to have him comfort you, until there is that physical connection.
We are working on that Ari.
In fact, I think that the D/s helps with that. But I'll leave those over the top details for the BDSM thread!

No..its within your right to want what you want ...we all have those wants. Just realize the limitation that may create in the ability to build a connection.
This is very true, but I'm ok with that. I have found that having the requirement in my life to have long lasting relationships or none has truly been more than beneficial. It's not that I won't consider having sex with someone I'm not going to be in a long-term committed relationship with, it's just that if we aren't good enough friends that I can pretty much say you'll be a friend for life-then I don't (to use Mono's terminology) wish to share my energy in that manner.

Glad to hear you are keeping up on the walking. Can't wait to drag you and yours through the woods of whistler on a nice hike
Now THAT is something else for me to look forward to!! I LOVE taking a nice hike. I mapped out several routes today that range from 9 miles-25 miles in length.
I'm not ready for the 25, but I'm hoping to do it at least a couple times before snow falls!

Sorry to hear that...hope he gets stuff figured out
Me too-but when you love someone, you have to be willing to let them do their growing on their speed. And so, I wait. (I'm very impatient, can you see my fingers drumming?)
"Love As Thou Wilt"
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