Compersion only began to seem possible in my heart when I decided I wanted to learn how to love unconditionally. I was weary of loving on conditions. I want a bigger love than that. This doesn't have anything to do with mono or poly, it's just a desire I have. I want to be able to love someone with an unreserved, unconditional yes, no matter who she loves and no matter what else. This is the kind of love I want to live on a daily basis in my life.