not here, but a chat somewhere else...
I was chatting with someone and he mentioned that his parents were swingers, and open with their relationships.
Mentioned he hosts swing parties with his sister.
Mentioned he swings with his sister.
Mentioned that his kids and her kids were now old enough that they wanted to swing with the family.
and that his sister and niece had a sexual relationship.
I don't know when my head exploded. Am I so open minded that I've lost my mind? and I don't know that I'm judging him/his family.. it's just not my thing.. Although I can understand him having a hard time finding a date.
and I have to be careful, because what I'm thinking about his situation is pretty much what others think about poly and well, the situation I want.
Just wanted to share.