I think when Mono met Nerdist it was in passing as Mono picked me up to go out. They exchanged a few words at the door and I didn't rush them. I reveled in them being together and was in my own world about it. Nerdist found it very helpful. He just needed to see him I think and I needed him to also. It became real then to all of us.. not a fantasy world when I was with Mono and that e didn't exist when I wasn't. Later visits were more about boundaries and getting to know each other, but that first time was just long enough and for all the right reasons at the time.
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