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Old 07-14-2010, 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Erato View Post
Your description of mono scares me, hehe! Being jealously guarded would not be comfortable for me and what happens when my partner leaves/falls for another/dies? I'd be alone after years of pushing other potential loves out of my life or ignoring them. .
I have seen this sentiment posted on here a few of times by different posters. This worries me... it rings of insecurity and abandonment issues.

And - one of the reasons why I question what I am doing - wouldn't want to be in poly relationships b/c of unhealthy reasons.
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