Thanks - if nobody learns from it or gains anything from the read than posting it was pointless, lol.
Adrian continues to amaze and inspire us all. In the last two days more conversations and bonding has occurred, and this girl is a natural born poly for sure! She has a mindset that embodies everything that polyamory is. She gets it without trying. She tells me/us things she's feeling that make us check to make sure we reallyknow what we're doing - because apparently she understands this relatioship and the wholeconcept better than we do. In 10 days, lol.
Lana and I had a bonding moment yesterday and again today. It's really sweet to talk to her without the "if" factor floating around!
Violet is taking it all in stride, and being her usual amazing self.
My screen name doesn't do this feeling justice.