Originally Posted by redpepper
That being said, if they love each other beyond sex but more than friendship then perhaps their relationship is asexual? Would that fit somewhat?
I suppose it could except that if it were up to A, they would still be sexual. S took that off of the table a long time ago. There's a big long story there, mostly related to S coming out later in life. Neither of them wanted to get divorced though, so they've made arrangements that work for each of them.
I think you're both right though. Mostly it will be like having a roommate. I think I just need to figure out how to tread carefully over the bits where it's me that gets to have sex with her and not him (there was already an evening of awkward questions that A later apologized for).
To add another wrinkle, both S and I have Asperger's.