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Old 07-13-2010, 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted by HappiestManAlive View Post
the girls draw a LOT of attention.....And I felt really, really, REALLY, uncomfortable for a few minutes......the girls all insist that I needn't do anything, they kind of think it's fun to watch people blow gaskets in their perception when they say those things, and that I don't need to worry.
I'm a bit of an exhibitionist myself and love attention, so I can relate to "the girls" and can imagine myself among them! However, if "our guy" was expressing so much discomfort, I would adjust my behavior a bit. I think they are being a bit insensitive. There are "Swing clubs" and other such places you could go and be just a naughty as you want in public, but this type of behavior could be dangerous as you could have been attacked by the entire group of guys.
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