There are a lot of happy people out there that are doing poly things, but don't know what poly is. Welcome SWFLTriad. Since you are in Southwest Florida, you might want to attend a polytampa meeting. There's one coming up next Sunday. Check http://www.polytampa.com/
Of course, my other theory is that many happy polys are too busy to post on boards like this.
My viewpoint might be skewed by the two poly relationships which have 20+ year marriages at the core of the diverse, interesting tribes.