Yep yep yep..
I can find someone incredibly sexxy and sexually compatible, but they are interested in things that *I* find squicky
Those things may be hard limits for me but necessary for their sexual expression.
Using one of my kinks as an example - I like humiliation play - but don't use me as a toilet.... that's a deal breaker for me.
So yes - I think that I can be sexually compatible but our sexuality be incompatible.