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Old 07-31-2009, 12:03 AM
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Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
I think you are totally right about this to some extent. I forget that I have "grown up" in a queer friendly, queer positive, sex positive sub-culture to some degree. I have all the looks of someone in a hetro-norm culture, but once I really talk about myself and what I value and who I cherish in my life, it is hard for others to see me fit into that anymore. I forget, and therefore, quite often, make no attempts to hide my true identity most of the time as a result. Why should I anyway, they can deal with it. I deal with hetrosexism, homophobia, gender stereo typing, and other forms of bigotry and intolerance of others everyday in my work and in my everyday life.

I know I push buttons and I make no apology when it makes people think....

what I think is hot and makes me hummmmm is all that matters and all that others should be happy about for me.

If they look at me with a stunned face, most of the time I like to think that
Im a bit the same. I am who I am and If they dont like it. Bully for them. I wont change who I am for no one but myself. Im happy with who I am. I am happy with "what" I am. Isnt that what matters the most?
I donít get many things right the first time
In fact, I am told that a lot
Now I know all the wrong turns, the stumbles and falls
Brought me here...
And where was I before the day
That I first saw your lovely face?
Now I see it everyday
And I know that I am
I am, I am
The luckiest..
~ Ben Folds five ~
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