NRE, ahhh, the sweet bliss of it all. Enjoy HMA, hope all is well when its over.
It seems that roses, love notes and smiley faces ends with NRE for most. Chivalry is not dead Maca. For most it just has a life span. I know you and Mono are not that way (can't speak to you HMA, cause I don't know you
), but for all the relationships I have been in, its been the same. I have been the same. With Mono I/we give and think of giving and keep at it as much as we can. Its such a vitally important part of the "fun" part of a relationship and I really think a large part why people look to poly relationships or other relationships in general, because that joy is gone and they either can't get it back or don't know how to.