My wife and I have together since HS. Then about 20yrs later, I came home from work and thought my wife was leaving for another man or person.
She told me that she feels cheated since she has not been with anyone other than me. A month of counseling told me to listen better and for her to really open up and tell the truth.
I learned with the open communications that she has feelings for another woman. At first we thought it would just be sex, bonus was I was included.
Then we really fell in love with each other and the other woman completed us.
We have all lived together for the last 5 months and sleep in the same bed etc. We have opened up to our close friends and most close family and received more support and praise than other reactions.
I joined this forum for information and support. We openly discuss our issues and share our feelings. We are looking for suggestions on how to handle different things that come up.
We are planning a commitment cermony sometime next year as well.
I will encourage the girls to get their own profile to clear up who is talking to who. Right now one is proof reading this, thank God!