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Old 07-08-2010, 10:26 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by HappiestManAlive View Post
How did this thread not end up being 100 pages long within minutes? LOL I guess everyone went to PM. Erosa - just curious - did anything come of this?
Could be any of a number of reasons:

Folks too old;
Folks too fat;
Folks not looking for a triad;
Folks not wanting to deal with distance;
<insert reason here>.

For example, Curly and I are much older and fat. We also don't arrive as a matched set for partners. Sure, we've occasionally thought it could be cool if we met a lady who knocked the socks off both of us; it's never been something that we've had much interest in pursuing.

So, while the distance isn't much of a problem, a unicorn would have to be pretty spectacular and chase us down for anything to happen.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.