Originally Posted by Ariakas
What exactly are you wondering?
Just wondering if the Os a circed guy gets are so underwhelming, esp when jerking off quickly, he doesnt count it as sex.
I guess then, if one jerked off next to a partner who was also jerking or jilling off, it would be sex?
BTW, I never jill off without a fantasy or 3 in my head. They used to be elaborate made up things, but since I've been dating the last cpl yrs, I usually think of the last time I did have sex w a partner... or the last few times, with this or that person.
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