I'm a member of a group online and have been for over 3 years. I told them all about what we're planning. Every one was very understanding. Not one person said anything negative at all. The ones who weren't to sure about it just said, hey, it's your life...kind of thing. But I was asked alot of questions, which I expected.
It felt so GOOD to say it to people that I know in RL. One of the girls that I came out to is someone that lives semi close and we've been to visit! She is totally understanding and actually excited for us.
She said something so nice. She said "Most people are lucky if they find one person in the world to love, you guys found two, how lucky is that"
That just touched my heart.
I'm really surprised, I thought there would be some backlash but not at all. I'm so happy!