Violet is an exotic dancer. She'd laugh her butt off at me for using that term, too - she is shameless and open about the fact that she's a stripper, and she loves it.
And you're right about guys and jobs, ESPECIALLY in that line of work. I have never been one to dctate my SO's actions, and this is no different. But where some have issues, I think it's great that hundeds of guys see her like that - because everything they're thinking merely means that without realizing it they jsut wish they were me, LOL. And trust is never a problem, because I know she wouldn't do anything stupid, and because if for some reason she decided a guy was worth pursuing either from work or otherwise, she'd talk to me about it. :shrug: