Originally Posted by DazednConfused
d I keep going through all the potentially embarassing furture scenarios in my head.
Ahhh that embarrassment. Well you could request they do their thing discretely until there is a time when you have processed what happened. Once you are strong and confident in the relationship structure and setup it can migrate more publicly.
There is a term used in poly. NRE (new relationship energy)
This thread covers the pros and cons of the ride called NRE. You might want to understand where she is coming from, she might want to understand it to. Its intoxicating and potentially dangerous, something to be aware of
...As bad as I just made it sound, it has positives too...